Today in Love Tarot Judgement - Your Heart Knows Best

Judgement, the twentieth card in the Major Arcana is here to let you know it’s time to make that tough choice.

It’s time for you to judge if your love life is working for you - or not. Judgement is the twentieth card in the Major Arcana and that has a big significance when it comes to relationships. Either you’re ready to spend your life with someone, or you aren’t.

Now, there’s nothing wrong with choosing to be single. In fact, it can be one of the most empowering experiences ever! Especially if you’re one of those people who jump frm one relationship to the next. If that’s the case for you, and your heart is telling you to take a break from relationships, then by all means, you should listen to what your heart is telling you.

It can be scary to do life alone, but sometimes it’s for the best. Other times Judgement simply means that you need to look at your relationship, otherwise you might end up losing the person that you’re with. Either way, it’s time for you to decide if you’re truly happy with the life you’re living and the love you’re getting - or are you looking for more?

The Grass is Greener

You know that saying that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence? Well, it isn’t. It’s greener where you choose to water it. So whether you decide to go at it alone or in a relationship is not the real issue here today. The issue is, where do you want your life to improve? And once you’ve figured out how you want to make your life better you need to decide if you want to do that with someone, or if you want to pay special attention to yourself?

If you’re already in a relationship it might be very difficult to come to the decision that your partner is holding you back - especially if you’ve been together for years. But you also don’t have to end a good thing if you want to pursue your own happiness for a while. You can decide to keep your partner, but make more time to do the things you love.

On the other hand you might be in a terrible relationship - in which case you should probably ask yourself why you’re there to begin with. Once you realize what brought you into the relationship you’ll find it a lot easier to let go of all that toxicity in your life. And it might be a good idea to take things solo while you recover.

If you’re living a fun single life that’s all good too. But if you’re desperately looking for a relationship it’s definitely time to ask yourself why you can’t be happy alone.

Choose for Yourself

The Judgement card isn’t here to tell you if you should be in a relationship or not. It’s here to ask you where you want to spend your energy. If you’re happy you’re happy. If you aren’t happy you aren’t happy. Things are the way they are. What you should be focusing on today is how you hope things can be in the future.

Things are constantly changing and whatever you’re feeling right now is about to change. It’ up to you to decide how you want it to change. Do you want to carry on like you have been? Is there something missing from your life? Would you be more fulfilled, if only…

The truth is your heart already knows what it wants from the future. And right now you have a golden opportunity to put whatever you really want into motion. It’s going to take guts. It’s going to take determination. But you have what it takes to create the perfect life and relationships for yourself.

Of course, all of this isn’t going to happen overnight. So, you’ll have to deal with the consequences of your decisions and make those dreams come true for yourself. But the universe is giving you a chance to voice and act on what your hearts deepest desires are right now. If you take this chance you can change your life - but how much of your life are you really unhappy with? Try not to let yourself be too idealistic here. Relationships can turn around in an instant when we realize their true worth. Also, don’t sell yourself short - because you do deserve to be happy.

The question isn’t what the perfect version of you would want in their perfect life - the question is, what does the real you want? And how are you planning on achieving those relationship goals?